Monday, August 13, 2018

RESPECT IN MARRIAGE

    RESPECT IN MARRIAGE

 Respect is a vital attribute that all couples must have for each other.
1. Never let your spouse feel less than appreciated.

2. Never undermine the opinions or counsels of your spouse. As it helps to breed a strong self confidence and even spousal confidence.

3. Be understanding even over issues that you do not agree over.

4. Praise your spouse for every good milestone. Be supportive in bad times.

5. Don't nag your spouse regardless of what he/she, did/didn't do.

6. Respect your personal spaces. For men, it helps them rebound to being even better husbands.

7. Be intentional about prioritizing your spouse over trivial issues.

8. Be considerate always thinking about your spouses needs and desires.

9. Never use degrading or insulting words on your spouse.


10. Apologize when in wrong, don't try to justify your wrong doings.

11. Treat your spouse the way you want to be treated.

12. Desist from bad company especially friends that are not happy in their marriages.

13. Help your spouse whenever possible.

14. Be empathetic, putting yourself in their shoes.

15. Be trustworthy, be the person they can count on in good and bad times.

16. Let your spouse know that they are safe in your company.

17. Keep in mind that our approaches, ideas, and opinions may differ from other people and none is wrong. No one has the absolute truth.

18. Love unconditionally without borders.

19. Work hand in hand in bringing the best in each other.

20. Communicate areas of desired respect.

21. Be your wife's girlfriend, be your husband's buddy.

22. Be hardworking making sure you are able to be the best husband possible.

23. Perform all duties designated to you as husband and wife.

24. Find out what your goals and objectives are in life and work to achieve them together as a couple.

25. Learn to understand your spouse's body make up sexually. Respect their sexuality.

26. Don't force your decisions or opinions on your spouse. Respect their individuality.

27. The price of inaction is greater than the cost of ma.

"Everyone is one day closer to eternity ! Pls remember this.

pastorbolaji #AdamandEve

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