It is a huge challenge to be in a serious relationship/marriage and some "forces" are bent on ruining such a wonderful union.
"DEALING WITH EXTERNAL ATTRACTIONS IN MARRIAGE".
2. Find out why you feel attracted to this individual, most of the time it might be due to something you think is missing in your marriage/relationship.
3. Stay clear of the individual as much as you can while you work out how to deal with the situation.
4. Get closer to your spouse and rekindle all that dwindled away in past times.
5. Attention cannot be over emphasized in a marriage.
Give special attention to your spouse.
6. Embrace your feeling and use them as a reconnecting bond with your spouse.
7. Let your spouse know what you are going through and be willing to help you through this phase.
8. Understand that this is a temptation and can equally be overcome through prayers.
9. Be cautious, show remorse and take responsibility for your actions.
10. If the attraction is an old acquaintance or an ex, please stay clear of such.
11. Believe in your partner again, trusting them even more to take care of your heart.
12. Discourage all advances from the other party.
13. Assure your spouse of your love and help deal with insecurities that may arise.
14. Do not be distant from each other, Be present at all times, be in tune to your spouse emotional needs at all times.
15. Be open and willing to go for counselling if and when it is becoming an issue.
16. Don't play with fire, don't go on dates with them. Avoid places and meet ups that are likely to trigger strange feelings.
17. External attraction can arise in the workplace, since jobs are not literally littered about.
18. Recognize that your spouse's needs will likely change with age, added responsibility and with the growing complexities of life.
19. Have an accountability partner that can hold you to positive standards.
#AdamandEve
pastor Bolaji idowu
No comments:
Post a Comment